Zaftig4ltr, 52

Black Zaftig looking 4 LTR I am NOT looking for ONLY s--. What I AM looking for is a LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP with someone that I desire and desires me. I would like to get to know someone, and date with an intention on having a long term relationship. I date outside of my race because those are the people I have been raised around, the schools I attended and the friends that I have.

I have small children. My son is 6 and my daughter is 1. They are my world and everybody comes before them. I share custody with my ex however it seems I’m the one who has them the majority of the time. I would appreciate being with someone who also has children, likes children and doesn’t want any or anymore .They are the first thing I think about when making major decisions. I am very protective of my children and I will not have them meet anyone unless it becomes a serious relationship.

I am very picky when it comes to what I am looking for in a man because that is what I deserve and I demand to be treated like a woman, a special woman. I am a one woman man and expect you to be a one man woman. I appreciate, humor, honesty, ambition, a man who is completely grounded and confident. I LOVE a man who can cook as well as someone handy because I can’t do either of those things!!

PHYSICAL ATTRIBUTES:
I love tall men!! The taller the better!! I like wearing heels so when that happens I can easily push 6’ tall. Of course if you don’t mind then I won’t mind! I do prefer SEXY established men between 35-50 y/o salt n pepper hair or someone bald.

I also prefer Divorced WHITE male. A man who has been there before and has learned from their mistakes and wishes to start over the right way. I would like it if he had kids as well. However I will not be limited to someone because of their race, status or if he is an animal lover or not!! I am just looking for THE ONE, MY HERO, my Knight in Shining Amour ? I’m so cliché!!