Singlemama0912, 36

Married 3 years then Abandoned My husband and I seperated 9 days before our 3 year anniversary. I was under the impression that when I was able to move back to the area that we would be back together but he decided to stay away. He eventually filed for divorce. Yes, I complained a lot and I know my part in the divorce. I also know his part, he was cheating on my and constatly lying to me about several things, finances included. Then I recently found out that his parents, the girl he was having an affair with, and her friends were pressuring him into divorcing me. Needless to say the girl ended up pregant with his child so he filed for the divorce. Sad thing is, I was NOT raised that you give up on your marriage so easily. I was fighting to save our marriage even after everything. It didn't do any good though, in the end, I still lost him. There I was with a 2yo son at the time to raise on my own. He is more involved in his life now though. I have a daughter by another man, I left him while I was pregnant as he was verbally abusive and physically agressive and controlling and did not need that for myself or our child. He has never seen her and she is 11wks old today (3-8-13). My kids are my world though.