Marineowl, 41

I am an open and passionate man who loves to argue on an intellictual level and wrestle on a physical level. I consider myself an independant thinker, which has been known to get me into trouble with past relationships. Have been seperated from my ex for going on three years and tired of the club/bar dating scene. Too many women out there are just looking for a free ride because they don't know how to stand up for themselves. I know what I want out of life and where I am going. I don't need someone to tag along as support. I want someone who has goals and dreams, and is willing to live her life beside me as we go after our goals together. Every day, during the end of my marriage, it felt as if we were complete strangers. She had goals and dreams, but they did not include me, and mine didn't include her. I know my future has room for more, but I'm wondering how long this path goes before it's next intersection.